Service Details
Services celebrating Curt’s life were held in July. We are going to continue celebrating his life with a gathering in the banquet hall of Bucket’s Pub 2nd Round (2031 Lathrop Avenue in Racine) on Saturday, October 12, 2024 from 5:00 – 8:00 pm. We would love to have you join us. All are invited and encouraged to wear your favorite Wisconsin sports teams apparel or Hawaiian shirt to the gathering.
Services celebrating Curt’s life were held in Draeger-Langendorf Funeral Home on Monday, July 29, 2024.
Memorial Suggestions
In lieu of flowers, memorials to the American Cancer Society have been suggested.
Elmwood Park – Curt D. Rude, age 72, passed away at home, surrounded with the love of family, on Wednesday, July 17, 2024. Curt was the first born son of the late Douglas and Veronica “Vera” (nee: Goetz) Rude in Racine in October of 1951. He had a wonderful childhood growing up with his brothers, Scott and Mike.
He attended Saint Patrick’s Grade School, Washington Middle School and graduated from Horlick High School.
He was drafted into the US Army by Uncle Sam during the Vietnam War. He served honorably in Germany and was trained as a Marksman – M16. While in the Army he received instruction in Heating, Ventilation and Air Conditioning which led to his career path.
Starting out, he worked for a couple of companies until being hired by Martin Peterson in Kenosha. His career spanned almost 40 years and he made many friendships during that time.
Curt was blessed to have six amazing children in his life. All of them were loved and cherished by him. He was active in their lives as a coach for basketball and soccer, Boy Scout leader and mentor. Curt was so very proud of each and every one of them.
Curt was the “one” who many called on when there was a question, repair or someone in need of a listening ear. His mechanical abilities aided in fixing almost any problem. He was wise, patient, compassionate, knowledgeable, reliable, a good teacher and a great listener. If you needed something, he knew how to help. In addition, he had a great sense of humor and never really took himself too seriously. He lived life with an attitude of doing his best in whatever life brought his way.
In the fall, Curt loved getting together with family and friends for bow and rifle deer hunting seasons. He loved the camaraderie and laughs shared with everyone there. It didn’t really matter if they didn’t even see a tail. It was being together and having a good time and laughing with those he loved that was most important.
He was able to enjoy retirement for over 10 years. During that time he was elated to welcome 12 grandchildren. They were the apple of his eyes. Getting to know each one brought him so much joy. He and Grandma were honored to provide childcare to them during the week. It was magical to see Curt interact with his grandbabies. They spent lots of time at parks, going for walks in the wagon, painting rocks to hide for others to find, swinging on the tree swing, picking raspberries in the backyard, reading lots of books, swimming at Lake Michigan, checking in on the chickens that lived next door and gardening with Grandpa. Christmas with the family and yearly vacations with everyone to Michigan’s UP were Curt’s favorite things to do. In Michigan he loved every day’s activities but especially loved being in the gazebo at night, talking about the day with everyone under the soft glow of Christmas lights he installed above.
He is survived by his wife, Laura (nee: Stuebe), children Meghan (Jim) Edmonson, Katie (Jaren) Christianson, Cullen (Tope) Rude, Kristie (Alan) Attal, Casey (Lauren) Rude and Connor (Alicia) Rude. Twelve grandchildren, Dylan, Emma, Madeline, JJ, Ily Jo, Isaiah, Eliott, Zoë, Levi, Olivia, Tinley and Harper. Brothers, Scott (Denise Sarah) Rude and Mike (Steve Hawk) Rude. He is further survived by Brother-in-Laws Tom (Heather) Stuebe and Dan (Nancy) Stuebe and Sisters- in- Laws Lynda (Craig) Hunter and Carol Stuebe. In addition, he is survived by many cousins, nieces, nephews and friends. His loss will impact so many lives, but he will live forever in the hearts of those who loved him.
Services celebrating Curt’s life were held in Draeger-Langendorf Funeral Home on Monday, July 29, 2024 at 7:00 pm. Military honors will followed. Visitation was Monday, July 29th, from 5:00 – 7:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, memorials to the American Cancer Society have been suggested.
We are going to continue celebrating his life with a gathering in the banquet hall of Bucket’s Pub 2nd Round (2031 Lathrop Avenue in Racine) on Saturday, October 12, 2024 from 5:00 – 8:00 pm. We would love to have you join us. All are invited and encouraged to wear your favorite Wisconsin sports teams apparel or Hawaiian shirt to the gathering.
Special note of thanks to Curt’s sister-in-law, Lynda Hunter RN, for carrying the family through the last couple of days of his life with her medical advice and incredible support given in our time of need. The family is also grateful to our daughter-in-law, Doctor Tope Rude, for assisting them in understanding medical reports and terminology with loving moral support during Curt’s illness.
Cousin Carrie says
A wonderful summary of a wonderful life. He most certainly touched many, many lives and the loss will impact so many. Sending heartfelt sympathy and condolences to all. It is a comfort knowing he made his decisions up to the end and was surrounded by those he loved so dearly.
Jeanne (Ferraro) & Tom Jirasek says
Our deepest condolences for your loss of Curt. Our prayers are with you.
Diane and Jeff Torkilsen says
Lori, my thoughts are with you today and always. God bless Curt.
Love,
Diane
Brian Krusienski says
There is no doubt that Curt was a wonderful man. Even though his previous marriage to my youngest sister had dissolved, he maintained contact with my family throughout the subsequent years. My parents and other sister are all deceased now, but I know they would
all join me in singing his praises. Not only did he give our family four amazing children: Cullen, Casey, Connor and Meghan, but he gave unselfishly of his time and attention. He may
no longer be here in person, but we will always be proud and fortunate to be related.
Jerry Ptaschinski says
I knew Curt from grade school all the way through high school. He was always one of a good guys. I give my sympathy to the family for their loss. Rest in peace, my friend.
Dan Ferraro says
Curt and I were football teammates in high school. Great guy. Rest in Peace, Curt.
William Spreeberg says
Rest in peace Curt.
Carol Guy says
I am so sorry about Curt
West High neighbors are thinking of the family at this sad time
Frank Nelson Horick 70 says
Enjoyed so many great times on the gridiron at Washington and Horlick. May your memory be a blessing to many!
Jean Asunto says
so sorry for your loss
Clara Minardi Pappenfuss says
My Deepest sympathy to Curt’s wife and Children, and brothers Scott and Mike! I attended grade school and Wm Horlick High School with Curt!! He truly was one of the best guys I knew! Last time I saw him was at our 50th. Class Reunion . Rest in Peace Curt!
Clara Minardi Pappenfuss says
My deepest sympathy to Curt’s ,Wife,children and brothers Scott and Mike!!! He was one of the BEST guys I met in Grade school and thru Wm Horlick High School!, Heaven gained another Great Friend! Rest IN Peace Curt🙏🏻
Colleen Cox says
Mike, so sorry about your brother Curt. We often spoke about our significant family connections. Praying for peace for you and your family.
Kris and Katie Boerner says
Sending our deepest condolences. We are so very sorry for your loss.
Tilak Jain says
Meghan, Jim and kids (Maddie, Emma and Dylan), we are so sorry for your loss. Just reading your dad / grandfather’s story above tells us how much he must have cherished you all. We hope your family wishes in this solemn time.
Clara Minardi-Pappenfuss says
RIP Curt!! You were “one were one of the best guys”, at St Pat’s and Horlick!! Class of 70