Service Details
SUNDAY, JUNE 30, 2019
VISITATION: 1:00 p.m. – 3:00 p.m.
MEMORIAL SERVICE: 3:00 p.m.
Everything will take place in the Draeger-Langendorf Funeral Home and Crematory
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In lieu of flowers, memorials have been suggested to the ALS Association – Wisconsin Chapter, 3333 N. Mayfair Rd. Suite 104 Wauwatosa, WI 53222.
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Flowers by JosephBetsy Ann Berning, 62, passed away at Hospice House in Pleasant Prairie on Saturday, June 22, 2019 after a long battle with ALS.
She was born in Lexington, KY on November 15, 1956, the daughter of Robert and Velma (nee: Bennett) Timmerman. On November 29, 1980, she married Steven Berning. Betsy graduated from Deaconess Hospital Nursing School in 1977 and worked in Critical Care for eighteen years. She then obtained her Master of Science in Exercise Science from Northeastern Illinois University and worked in Cardiac Rehabilitation for an additional twenty-one years. During this time she worked at Deaconess Hospital in Evansville IN; West Suburban Medical Center in Oak Park IL; St. Francis Hospital and Evanston Hospital in Evanston IL and All Saints/ St. Mary’s in Racine WI. Betsy’s thoughts and deeds were always with her four children and two grandsons. Her priority was always to spend time with her family. She started an annual lakeside meeting of the family and friends in the Hayward WI area in order to spend time with them without phones. This is being continued in her honor. Betsy was committed to a life time of good nutrition and exercise and motivated her friends, family and particularly patients. Betsy loved and promoted the “quiet sports” such as hiking, bicycling, running and kayaking. Often to the chagrin of friends and family, vacation with Betsy involved hiking and biking in elevated locations. Betsy was always training, either for the next marathon or backpack hiking such as the Grand Canyon or the hills of Cinque Terre. Betsy was also a gracious hostess: planning and organizing parties and dinners for friends and family for every major holiday as well as a few made up holidays. She took great joy in cooking for others. She was always trying something new from her extensive collection of cookbooks and recipes. Betsy loved and took a great deal of interest in her patients. According to some, she would worked them a little too hard in Cardiac Rehabilitation, but often invited them to her parties and met for breakfast on the weekends.
In addition to her loving husband, Steven, she is survived by her children, Emmy Berning of Madison, Bennett (Ashley) Berning of Minneapolis, MN, Annalise Berning of Salem Lakes and Bethany (Jon) Pfeiffer of Kenosha; her grandchildren, Alexander Quam and Walter Berning; her parents, Robert and Velma Timmerman of Evansville, IN; her brothers, Robert (Tina) Timmerman of Kentucky and John (Alice) Timmerman of Manassas VA; her brother-in-law, Richard James of Troy, OH; her mother-in-law, Dorothy Berning of Evansville IN; her sister-in-law, Barbara (Fred) Willman both of Evansville, IN; her brother-in-law, David (Joanie) Berning of McBee, SC; as well as dear nieces, nephews, extended family, fellow nurses and special friends. Betsy was also preceded in death by her sister, Virginia James.
Family and friends are invited to meet in the Draeger-Langendorf Funeral Home and Crematory on Sunday, June 30, 2019 for a visitation and time to meet with the family from 1:00 p.m. – 3:00 p.m. A service remembering and celebrating her life will follow at 3:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials have been suggested to the ALS Association – Wisconsin Chapter (3333 N. Mayfair Rd. Suite 104 Wauwatosa, WI 53222).
The Berning family sincerely appreciates the support provided by friends and family during Betsy’s battle with ALS and extend a special thank you to the unwavering love from Nancy Thompson, Russell Thompson and their immediate and extended families.
Mary Thielen Anderson says
I am so shocked to know Betsy passed. She took care of me and my late husband, Thomas, at All Saints rehab for 5 years. She was truly special to us. May God take care of her family. RIH Betsy.
Jane Pfettscher Garrett says
Sorry to hear this, I remember Betsy from high school. Prayers for family and friends
Rick Knight says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Everyone will miss her GOD BLESS ALL
Tarra Coomes says
My family’s thoughts and prayers are with you all. She will be missed.
Taunya ( Edrington ) Deffendall says
Sending prayers and my deepest sympathy for your family . Betsy was one of my nursing classmates at Deaconess . She always had a beautiful smile and a kind heart . 🙏
Jane Gerke says
Dear Steve, Emma, Ben, Annie and Bethany, I wish you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to hold dearly in your heart forever.
I am blessed to have many good memories to cherish, especially are “meetings” in her Cardiac Rehab office. I always enjoyed her stories, pictures of your family and her remarkable travels. She was so proud of you kids. I will miss her great sense of humor and beautiful smile. Rest in peace, Betsy.
Linda (Coghill) Jochim says
Betsy was a great friend. We were together in the class of 74 from Reitz high school. She will be missed. Prayers to her family.
Anonymous says
Betsy was my nurse and my neighbor. I feel lucky to have met her.
Sandy Carlson
Leora Kaiser says
I am so shocked to hear of Betsy’s passing. I was a cardiac patient at St. Mary’s . Even though I wasn’t under her care I did get to know her a little bit. She was so nice to everyone and always willing to help. She always had a smile on her face.
Rudy Byron, M.D. says
Betsy was a colleague and neighbor whose personality made everybody shine. It was a blessing knowing Betsy and being touched by her positive energy and beautiful smile. She will certainly be missed but her inner-drive to live a fulfilled life is what remains in everyone with whom she interacted.
All the best to the Berning family
John Dassinger (JD) says
I just seen this for the first time. Betsy was a dear friend of my wife (Sue) who cherished her friendship. I only met Betsy a few times but I enjoyed her company. She was a sweetheart!