Service Details
The staggered memorial viewing and family and friends visitation will take place in the Draeger-Langendorf Funeral Home on the evening of Friday, December 18, 2020 from 3-5 p.m. To keep family and friends safe in light of the pandemic and public health restrictions, a small private funeral will be held, and a celebration of his life will take place, in the future. Strict CDC guidelines will be in place for all attendees. You must wear a mask fully covering both your nose and mouth at all times.
Fitchburg (formerly of Racine) – Freddie Alexander Marsh-Lott, 71, passed away at UnityPoint Meriter Hospital on Thursday, December 10, 2020, in the loving presence of his daughters and two of his sisters.
He was born in Enterprise, Mississippi, on June 15, 1949, the son of Jacob and Ida Mae (nee: Marsh) Lott. Freddie graduated from Park High School and the University of Wisconsin – Parkside; and worked for many years as Director of the Bureau of Business and Design Professions in the Department of Regulations & Licensing.
Freddie is survived by his children David “Loki” Lott, Erica (Alex) Mikesell, and Annik (Chariss) Dupaty; grandchildren Nicolas, Cameron, Naiya and Nalani Dupaty and Avery Mikesell; his sisters and brothers, Lula (John) Garrett, Steve (Martha) Lott, Gregory Lott, Valeria (Henry) Conner, Jr., Willie Lott, Renee Lee, Tammy Gandy, Tonette (Brian) Miller, Perry Lott, Janice Lott, and Tiffany (Dewayne) Stevenson; stepmother Betty Lott; as well as dear aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and other relatives too numerous to name, and his ballroom dance community and friends. He was preceded in death by his father, Jacob Lott; mother, Ida Mae Lott; brother, William “Vernon” Lott; sister, Helen Lott; brother-in-law Henry Lee; nephew, Anthony First, Jr.; and grandparents, Augie and Idell Marsh and Daniel and Lula Lott.
We, his daughters, want to put a few things on record, because we know he’d love that… our dad was funnier, cuter, more talented, more creative, more genuine, and more full of life than most dads, maybe all dads (but we can’t prove that). A part of him was a kid at heart, bumping us off video games so he could play, and trash talking on the basketball court (later in midlife he ran circles around guys half his age). Then there was the brilliant part of him directing large staffs, writing cookbooks, creating amazing video memoirs, and organizing events. Dad was larger than life, and had a commanding presence. He never failed to share his opinion on an array of topics from social justice, to politics, religion, cooking methods, music, which sports teams were the best (It’s the Packers). And if there is still debate on a topic, we are sorry, but he was right and you are wrong. Our dad loved everyone, and taught us from an early age to love ourselves, and to judge people not on the color of their skin but on the content of their character like the Rev. Dr. King once said. If our dad ever cooked for you, we know you are smiling reading this, because he could throw down in the kitchen and on the grill (we could list the awards, but then you might start questioning your own accomplishments and we don’t want to bring anyone down). Dad was a super talented photographer, and saw the beauty in everyone and everything through his lens with loving eyes. If our dad ever took a photo of you, smile again. If you ever saw our dad dance, smile once more. He could glide across a dance floor as light as a feather (Ladies, are you still waiting for your turn? Smile.) Did you ever hear dad’s DJ mixes, watch his videos or attend his ballroom or Mardi Gras dances? Smile for the rest of your life remembering that joy, your favorite song coming on, or your favorite picture flashing across the screen.
Dad lived life on his own terms, in his own way. He always said, “Don’t worry about what people think about you, just be confident in who you are, and know you are good enough.”
The staggered memorial viewing and family and friends visitation will take place in the Draeger-Langendorf Funeral Home on the evening of Friday, December 18, 2020 from 3-5 p.m. To keep family and friends safe in light of the pandemic and public health restrictions, a small private funeral will be held, and a celebration of his life will take place, in the future.
Strict CDC guidelines will be in place for all attendees. You must wear a mask fully covering both your nose and mouth at all times.
Anonymous says
.Valeria Conner and Henry W.Conner, Jr
Deborah Ambrose says
Praying for family and friends during this time. Many memories with the Lott family awesome people. Freddy was one of a kind, always made you smile, he was an encourager.
Martha and Kate Abbene says
Thank you so much for writing this tribute. It’s all true, and more. Freddie has always been there as a friend, for more than 40 years now, and I can’t imagine him not being a phone call away. But these stories and memories make him everlasting in my heart. He was one of a kind and has left a beautiful legacy in his kids and grandkids . Love you, Freddie.
Alexander Phillips says
Love you Freddie! Rest In Heavenly Peace ❤
Paula Boykin says
Sincere condolences from the Boykin and McKinney families may God comfort you all
Michelle Williams, BrooklynPark, MN. says
I loved my big cousin and I know he loved me. The love he and my mother shared was so real. They were really close and when she passed he missed her dearly. Well, they are together again. Love and continued prayers to you guys.
Mary Anderson says
My condolences to the Lott family.
Mark Stanton says
Thank you for sharing your memories of your dad. I met him in the 1970’s when he lived at College and 11th street, next to the Salinas family who were my friends. Since Freddie was their friend he became my friend. Although only 5 years older than I, he seemed older because of that commanding presence you speak of. Memories of playing basketball at many places on the south side (Gordon Hall) and listening to him expound on the truth, and sharing some creation he made in the kitchen. I have been out of Racine nearly 40 years but will never forget Freddie and his brother Vernon. My condolences to you and all the family.
Michael T. Nelson says
Freddie, oh Freddie, what a guy. I remember him from Park High. What a nice guy. He will be sorely missed. I too love to cook, but i’ll bet my bottom dollar, Freddie would put me to shame. I could only wish to have one of his cookbooks. As we all age, people we liked In our early day’s are leaving us too early. To ALL of Freddie’s Families I offer my sympathy, as I know you will all miss him. Share all of those wonderful memories amongst each other.
JaNikka Marsh says
Miss you lots cousin/uncle Freddie but now your comfortable and rekindling flames with old family and friend who are already there, rest peacefully…….
Jan Manser says
I was his neighbor on Lakeview Blvd. in Middleton many years ago. We had many fun times together at neighborhood parties. I can still see his smile and full-belly laugh. What a great guy! I’m so sorry for your loss.
Chemera Shockley says
Uncle Freddie you will be missed and always remembered. Thank you for being apart of our special day.
We love you,
Chemera & Rashied Shockley
Sue Tenney says
I knew Freddie from the ballroom dance world. He was indeed a great dancer, DJ, and human being. He was always so kind, gentle, and welcoming to all. My condolences to his family, he will be deeply missed by so many.
Donna Barnes says
I met Freddie through his daughter when he moved to California. We established a meaningful and long lasting friendship. He was instantly likable. We had a common love of photography and would often drive around beautiful Sonoma County taking pictures. Freddie would quickly pull off the side of the road to shoot pictures of flowers or a vineyard or sunset. He enjoyed life. He will be missed by so many. Rest In Peace sweet Freddie. You have impacted the lives of so many, myself included.
Maureen Armstrong says
Recently got a phone call from Freddie after many years. How wonderful it was, so good to hear his voice. I’m from the dance community and agree. He was so light and smooth on the dance floor. We all had our favorite dances with him. Mine was the Veneneze dance with resting in the middle of the floor doing the Charleston. We lost a wonderful man. Prayers to the family and you have great memories. Also, anyone that knew him.
Christine Golden says
We’re so very sorry for your loss and we’re Praying 🙏🏿 for the entire family. RIH 😇🌹
Valerie Kazamias says
My sincere sympathy to you Annik and all your family. May it be of some confirm to know that my prayers are with you and yours. I am here for you just let me know at anytime, day or night. Love you, Valerie 💕💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕
Stacey Moore & Family says
Sending condolences , prayers & sympathies to the Lott family during this difficult time & the days to come.
Carla Gallman, Bolingbrook, IL says
Such a beautiful tribute! Annik and family-You all have my sincere condolences on your loss. I will be praying for comfort and peace ❤
Jack & Cassandra (Lott) Pickens says
With Deepest Sympathy, my heart goes out to each of you in this difficult time. Freddie will be missed, for the little things he did in big ways, cooking, photography, dancing, and just sitting have a conversation.
May God bless each of you and give you strength. Love you my family.
Brian Mink says
You will be so missed, old friend. Memories of you bring tears but more often smiles, laughs and fond memories of an amazing man whose heart and talent were unbounded. You brought joy to the lives of everyone you encountered Freddie. Rest my friend.
Anonymous says
Condolences from the Price family. We have known you forever. And will forever keep you in our hearts
Shirley Dawkins says
Beautiful 🙏🏽♥️
Anthony & Cheryl (Lott) Carey says
It was truly a blessing to have had an opportunity to stay with Freddie while we were there for the Lott family reunion. It has been so many years since we’ve had that chance. I thank God for all that Freddie was to the family and his friends. Freddie was surely a loving person. We pray for our family and know that we are only a phone call away.
May God continue to bless you and comfort you through his transition. Know that he is still with you!
Love to all,
Tony & Cheryl (Lott)Carey
Scott Lamster says
Thanks for making me a better dance teacher!
Jill Barton says
I only know your father as he lives in you, but if you are any indication of the man, he was amazing! I am so sorry for your loss as it must be truly great. I pray for you and your family’s comfort and peace my friend
Anonymous says
PRAYERS 🙏
Deb Keil says
I was an Occupational Therapist for 26 years & your Dad is one of my favorite & most memorable patients. I worked with him on In-Patient Rehab & felt it was an honor to know him. He gave me some of his recipes. I’ve made the Crepe Gateau & Cabbage Casserole, they were delicious! We talked about so many things while working together, I will remember him as a Renaissance man & know he lived more than most people. My sympathies to your family.
MMoCA Trustees and Staff says
Sincere sympathy from the Trustees and Staff if the Madison Museum of Contemporary Art
Doris Ingram-Jones says
May my prayers and condolences be with you during your time of bereavement..
Trustees of MMoCA says
Sincere sympathy from the Madison Museum of Contemporary Art Trustees and Staff 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Fran and Debbie Sweeney says
Freddie was such a warm and wonderful man. We had many great times together and will miss him dearly.
Josephine shannon says
May God bless the Lott family n my prayers n condolences to every one of the lotus familyjosephinej
Jenn Barry says
Sending so much love to you and your family ❤️. I wish I’d had a chance to meet this amazing man!
Chuck and Juanita Tyler says
Freddie was always kind and respectful to me. I can only think of good things about him. He was special in my life. We send out love, sympathy, and prayers to the family.
Anonymous says
My condolences to the family of Freddie Lott
He will be truly missed.
Elizabeth(Suejane)Powell
Maggie Cobb says
Remembering Freddie wishing the family comfort during this difficult time My thoughts an prayers are with the Lott family.
Lois and Jeff Mcwhorter says
Praying for my family we really gone miss Freddie love 💕 y’all
conwaygrandy jr says
rest up cuz love and miss u
Kevon & Yolanda Jackson says
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Najufer says
Thank You Lord!
Wonderful Service!
Always and Forever!
Najufer❤️
Jacqui Lefebvre says
Freddie touched so many lives with his kindness, love and humor. He will be so very missed. I am sure he is dancing in heaven. Condolences 💔
Edward Hooks says
Cousin rest in peace love you
Shanette Pittman Sanders says
Sending love to my family praying for you all. Remember all the good times it was a lot of those. God bless you all♥️♥️♥️😇😇
Mary Helena says
My Love and Prayers to the family.
Freddie was a rare bird. He lived life with zest, didn’t just exist. Was open to new experiences and people… ….. and never stopped learning.
A beautiful and rare bird.
Hic ks says
R.I.P.
THE HICKS FAMILIA says
R€ST IN P£ACE.
Beverly Golden-Reynolds says
Sorry for your loss. May Freddie RIH
Gloria Thomas says
My condolences to the family, sorry fir your loss. Freddie
RIP!
E says
You will be missed brother.
E. Marty Payne says
You will be missed brother. Love you always!
Denise McWhorter says
Condolences to the family of such a great man, may God cover you with his healing and love…R.I.P.
Siegfried C. says
Rest In Peace. You showed me kindness. Your cooking was amazing. Great man, even greater human being.
Sincerely,
Andre says
Still Missing You Down Here Unk Love You
Anthony Chapman says
Freddie was my go to man at UW-Parkside. We shared a place at Parkside Village in my last year and had some memorable times that are still fond memories. He always had me in stitches, introducing topics that nobody (but Him) knew the inside scope on. And when you laughed, he would look innocently and say ‘what? Photography was a craft he took pleasure in and excelled in, taught me more than a few things that I would later use in work and for pleasure. Great cook, intelligent guy and a good friend. Rest in peace my friend